Some days ago on our blogspot and facebook page we talked about signs to know if your boyfriend/husband is cheating on you,to cap it all we decided to give you the concluded part on reasons or signs that your boyfriend/husband is cheating on you.The main reason that men cheat is because they are looking for something that they aren't getting, or NO LONGER getting at home. Some people call it boredom, but the underlying reason is the SAME EXACT REASON why most women stray as well....Please read carefully because you may recognize a few things your man does on regular bases...If he does any Of this then you had better check your self cos it seeems you ain't doing things right that is those things you used to do to him when the relationship was new..
Though it takes two to tango horizontally, so let's take a look at these tips: One thing you should know is that Men are looking for that affection. They believe they are underappreciated and want to recapture that feeling of being attractive to someone, to be sexy, TO FEEL DESIRED. They want to feel excitement again, feel adventurous, even a little naughty, alive, like they matter to someone. But more importantly, They're looking for an ego boost . And who better than some new pair of eyes looking at them like they hung the moon, instead of the woman at home who's been in the bathroom five seconds after he's dropped a bomb? Put yourself in his shoes for a moment. Get into his mind and imagine what it's like to live his life. Do you know the stresses he's under at work? Imagine what it's like to get up every day at the crack of dawn, and do the same thing he does over and over. What does he worry about work-wise, financially, health-wise? Then think about the conversations you two have. Imagine what it may sound like from his side. Is it detail heavy? By that I mean, are your conversations more about stuff that needs to be done, places you guys have to go, money, tasks, etc?
Then imagine what's the first thing you guys talk about when he first gets home and the last thing before you go to bed? Is any of it romantic? Or sexy? Or flirtatious? Do you still communicate like you did when you were getting to know each other? Hmmm... If you think that you spend too much time in the task conversation, don't you think that you BOTH miss that thrill that you both had when you first started to date?
And If you said that you never talk in flirtatious terms, romantic terms, caring terms, well, how do you think that is nurturing your relationship? Take an honest look at your sex life. I know this may SEEM superficial, but your sexual communication often gauges how the rest of the relationship is going. It's like taking your temperature. It's a good way to gauge if something's not well in the whole relationship.So, ask yourself how your sex life is going?
Do you feel like you guys have gotten into a rut? Do you guys still have regular fore-play on both sides or has it become kind of predictable? Is that fun or does it get a little, oh I hate to say it, BORING? (Is THAT the kiss of death or WHAT?) Now, if YOU are feeling "EHH" about it, how do you think HE'S feeling? Again, these can be precursors. OK, before you have a nervous breakdown, DON'T PANIC. I'm not trying to scare you, I'm trying to help you help your relationship. You can easily start now making subtle changes to bring back the passion... AND KEEP IT IN YOUR HOME. Next thing you need to do is ask yourself the following question...
*How would YOU want to be treated?
* Remember what it was like to first date each other?
* The flirting, the kissing, the doing nice things for each other just because, the dry humping in the car?
*Don't you miss it too?
Then start to bring it back. What you both need is affection. That means more hugs, more kissing, more smiles, more caresses, more lingering looks.And keep in mind part of the affection is in your words.
Find ways of letting him know you still find him attractive. That means calling him at work, not to remind that he needs to come home early so you can get to do your activities or washing the babies cloth or cleaning the house, you call to tell him that you're thinking about riding him bare back like a wild stallion when he gets home. Yee Haw!
Find small ways to connect with him. Goodbye kisses, or even goodbye teases in the morning will have him excited to come home. How do you tease? Simple... One simple but powerful tease is to wait til he's brushing his teeth... Then just get on your knees for a second, take him in your mouth for just a quick second, jump back up and then tell him, "Hurry, home, baby..." (He'll be thinking about you all day and chances are, will arrive home early!) And TRY to remember to keep the FUN in your relationship. That may mean making dates... and in that, bring out some new ideas that will help stregthen your relationship by so doing he won't have cause to cheat on you.
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